Women and the right to sexual satisfaction

Posted by admin in Friday, July 18th 2008

The prejudices that women suffered for years due to conventional morality imposed by the middle of last century, can be fought. Some of them have already been stripped of countless taboos that restrict their sexual joy and their “right to orgasm”, others still drag, even unconsciously … then one of the reasons for orgasming … How can we improve in that aspect?

That unconscious restriction that many women suffered during their adolescence and adulthood, makes the fact enjoy sex, is for many a matter of “guilt”. And that manifests itself in many women are unable to reach an orgasm because of fear of experiencing pain during intercourse, following ancient precepts saying that sexuality was lacerante of the female body.

Today, we know that with proper stimulation, sex need not be painful. Another cause for which women are not fully enjoy their sexuality, is the fear of pregnancy and the spread of any disease, a fact passed with a basic weapon: information.

Access to contraceptives and prophylactics relevant methods, means that women are less concerned about these important issues and can concentrate fully enjoy their privacy. After menopause, many women live their sexual plenitude, to be absolutely careless of the possibility of becoming pregnant and taking advantage of the whole experience.

Another taboo that affect women’s sexuality is the refusal to own enjoyment, for the benefit of male sexuality, following another old prejudice stating that sexual pleasure was the exclusive property of men, and that this objective, women had a mere role of “companion”.

There is also the relationship between premature ejaculation or impotence and anorgasmia. Although in most cases, the problem is not physical companion but the attitude that has (as amended by any serious relationship, stress, job pressure, etc.), which causes lack of sexual ecstasy in women.

It is also that the appellant anorgasmia female, is caused by a bad relationship partner, a lack of understanding and communication, fights, infidelity, lack of interest and physical attraction, lack of patience in the game of seduction, and so on.

Trust is the basis of a good sexuality. Who does not want himself, can not discover what is the path to the fullness or take, for example, enough courage to ask your partner, which wants change and live sexually, as it feels comfortable, and so on.

Problems causing the physical orgasming - vaginal lesions
- the flaccidity of the musculature
- anorexia nervosa
- anxiety
- depression
- use of alcohol and some drugs

Types of anorgasmia
The primary anorgasmia: is the total and continuing inability to reach orgasm.

The situational anorgasmia: Assumes easier to reach orgasm through manual stimulation of the clitoris (mostly alone).

The anorgasmia coital: is the inability to achieve orgasm only through sexual intercourse, but does not override other ways to reach the maximum climax.

The secondary anorgasmia: occurs, especially during pregnancy, menstruation or after childbirth, and is one that appears after a period of sexual satisfaction and that normally responds to a change in the motivations and concerns women.

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